This Crazy Life

What do you do when you realize you’ve completely failed your kids as a parent.  You’ve set them up for complete failure to succeed in the real world.  That’s where I’m at.  Especially with one of my daughters.  But really with all of them to some degree.  I have one daughter struggling to go to school.  She has some social anxiety and going to school was really triggering.  We pulled her to homeschool and she goes to school for 2 classes a day.  I think she’s been to school about 6 times since they came back from Christmas break.  And she’s not doing her homeschool work at home.  She’s not doing anything.  No job.  She can’t clean her room.  I honestly don’t know what she does all day.  Nor do I know how to help her.  But I do know this is not sustainable.  She has got to start doing something and showing some initiative or I’m going to lose my shit.  Literally.